Dear Abby Said My Husband Use A Secret Mailbox 

Dear Abby told that I have been married for more than 40 years

Ever since my husband retired a few years ago, it has come to my notice that he is getting mail.

I don't wanna make a big deal out of it, but I'm worried

He sees all our bills and apparently pays other bills I'm not aware 

It is not that he is not generous; I don't lack anything.

It's that it's a secret. (I don't think he's into porn or anything nefarious.)

At this stage in my marriage, have you any advice for me?